Toddlerhood Straight Ahead

As I prepare for Addison's 1st birthday, I am reminded that I will no longer have a baby on my hands. Addison will now be considered a toddler. Man, these stages go fast. Baby Weekly sent me my last email growth update. I thought the information was fitting for anyone taking the time to read it. Enjoy.

-Show them how much you love them. Tell your children "I love you" every day. You can never give them too many hugs and kisses.

-Listen to your children. Let them know you think they're important and that you're interested in what they have to say.

-Make your children feel safe. Comfort them when they're scared and protect them from harm.

-Praise your children. When your children learn something new or behave well, show them you're proud of them. Reward them with your love and attention.

-Criticize the behavior, not the child. When your child makes a mistake, don't say, "You were bad." Instead, explain what the child did wrong. For example, say: "Running into the street without looking isn't safe." Then tell him or her the correct behavior.

-Be consistent in your rules and discipline. If two parents are raising a child, both need to use the same rules. Also, make sure baby sitters and relatives are aware of, and follow, your family rules.

-Spend time with your children. Do things together, such as reading, walking, playing and even cleaning house. What children want most is your attention. Bad behavior is usually their way of getting your attention.